As a human, we're curious to everything. We like to ask, we want some answers and we asked almost everything in our life; about salary, about job, in research studies, at school, or during lunch time. We realized that questions are the ultimate infinity, it can never be stopped. But, as always, there were some questions, you already knew the answer, but you always ask about it. Most repeated questions are usually very-very simple but why you keep asking about it? The answer is obviously in front of you. So, shake your brain wisely.
The examples:
When you know you look terrible and you are obviously not in good shape, don't ask: Do I look bad? If you ask me, I'll say: Get a mirror...
Self-reflection; if you're not very good in laundry, why spend hours in front of your washing machine and ask: How to clean this? Get your mother, she knows the best.
Sometimes, you want to sing the highest pitch in song. But you know you can't, so why asking: How to reach the high notes? Simple, you're the amateur so, just scream out.
There was a time, you have nothing to say but you want to say something to someone nearby. So, why ask: Today is hot, isn't it? Instead of asking the obvious thing, why don't you say: Today is very nice.
Always, whenever you meet a sudden problem and you don't know how to solve it, you shouldn't ask: How to clean this mess? You see, questions are good but it won't solve the problem very quickly. So, act first.
Ready to meet your date, you spend hours in front of the mirror but at the end, you might ask: Do I look great? or How do I look? Come on, just be confident. As long you look nice (and not weird), be optimist on your beautiful day.
When you saw something interesting or awful, you might ask: What is that? or What is that?. Actually, you don't have to ask. Watch first, then you'll be understand.
One day, a stranger suddenly greets you at the street. If this happens to you, you're not interested with the person, or you feels unsafe, don't ask anything such as: Do I know you? or Who are you? or Do we know each other? It's better for you to have a polite smile, and leave immediately. Or, go straight into a police station if necessary.
Breaking up in relationship is painful. You'll cry and scream, but don't ask: You don't love me anymore? or Why you did this? or Am I not good enough? Remember, the answer might kill you so don't ask. It is enough to bear the situation.
Someone argued your opinion and the argument is very tensed. The typical question might be: What do you want from me? or What is wrong with you? or You think you know everything? Relax, don't react much with the argument. The things they want from you is: the real truth, your failure or just simply a provocation.
When you know you look terrible and you are obviously not in good shape, don't ask: Do I look bad? If you ask me, I'll say: Get a mirror...
Self-reflection; if you're not very good in laundry, why spend hours in front of your washing machine and ask: How to clean this? Get your mother, she knows the best.
Sometimes, you want to sing the highest pitch in song. But you know you can't, so why asking: How to reach the high notes? Simple, you're the amateur so, just scream out.
There was a time, you have nothing to say but you want to say something to someone nearby. So, why ask: Today is hot, isn't it? Instead of asking the obvious thing, why don't you say: Today is very nice.
Always, whenever you meet a sudden problem and you don't know how to solve it, you shouldn't ask: How to clean this mess? You see, questions are good but it won't solve the problem very quickly. So, act first.
Ready to meet your date, you spend hours in front of the mirror but at the end, you might ask: Do I look great? or How do I look? Come on, just be confident. As long you look nice (and not weird), be optimist on your beautiful day.
When you saw something interesting or awful, you might ask: What is that? or What is that?. Actually, you don't have to ask. Watch first, then you'll be understand.
One day, a stranger suddenly greets you at the street. If this happens to you, you're not interested with the person, or you feels unsafe, don't ask anything such as: Do I know you? or Who are you? or Do we know each other? It's better for you to have a polite smile, and leave immediately. Or, go straight into a police station if necessary.
Breaking up in relationship is painful. You'll cry and scream, but don't ask: You don't love me anymore? or Why you did this? or Am I not good enough? Remember, the answer might kill you so don't ask. It is enough to bear the situation.
Someone argued your opinion and the argument is very tensed. The typical question might be: What do you want from me? or What is wrong with you? or You think you know everything? Relax, don't react much with the argument. The things they want from you is: the real truth, your failure or just simply a provocation.
And yes, there's a lot of questions we don't have to ask in daily life. I admit I did it too, sometimes. For a small matter, questions are not necessary. The exact answer is what we need the most.
p/s: Sometimes, there's a question, not so worthy to become a question.
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p/s: Sometimes, there's a question, not so worthy to become a question.
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